Tag: silence

3D Juggling 491: A Time to Share…. and a time to stay quiet

Su writes: “I arrived very early at the office this morning in order to get some outstanding work completed. In a large open plan office there is just me and one other colleague, head down,  working.  I fly through my work but with a sense of calm and enjoyment which comes from the knowledge that I am not going to be interrupted. It is nice to have the quiet companionship of a co-worker. The only sounds come from the clicking of the keys and the gentle white noise of the office.

It crosses my mind that I should turn round and tell my colleague what a good way to work this is, without the interruptions and with this calming peace around….. then I realise that to do this would be to destroy it. I would become an interruption.

Best to keep that gem to myself. Knowing when and when not to share is my first lesson today.”

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3D Juggling 471: Listen!

Claire writes: ‘Did you know that SILENT and LISTEN contain the same letters…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Try it!

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3D Juggling 412: WAIT

Claire writes: “One of my supervisees arrived the other day with a piece of paper which he takes to training events. It says WAIT. Why Am I Talking? What a great tool to have in front of you in a group or a committee!

When she is having a conversation, Nancy Kline, asks people to indicate when they have done all their thinking lest she interrupt their silence before they are ready to move on.”

“Don’t talk unless you can improve the silence.” Jorge Luis Borges

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