Claire writes: “Ruth and I finished Day 4 of Transforming Conversations last week with a group. One of them had struggled with the process from Day 1 saying it felt too cold and businessy. His comment as he left was ‘God is really here’. That’s a comment we get at every course in churches – and it takes a while for people to feel confident that letting go might just mean letting God.

The memory of that afternoon sat with me for a few days, so I was interested in Gregory Boyle’s article about stance – how are we in conversations – is our tendency to save or savour? “

What are your thoughts?