Claire writes: ‘Often people who want to have a conversation with us are a bit stuck with something.  If we ask questions about the something that keep them in the story, they will often stay stuck.

It makes a huge difference to perspective when we ask questions from a different place.  For example:

• if someone is talking all about feelings ask a question about facts
• if someone is talking all about their own view, ask what someone from their group or team – or the wider community might say or ask if they were here?

It’s amazing how effective that is at helping get unstuck.

Principle 5: Ask questions from a different place’

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