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3D Ideas 921: Gapping

Claire writes: “The BBC TV show Strictly Come Dancing is a favourite in our house.  This year, the series started while we were living with my brother.  Watching from a distance with different people helped look at things differently. So I am indebted to Mel, my sister-in-law for explaining – after all these years – what the judges mean when they say gapping. 

In ballroom dances, gapping is when there is a physical gap between the dancers. It comes when they are not quite in flow.  You can see it. That happens in coaching, too. When conversations are in flow they look like a dance.  And sometimes there is a gap of being on slightly different pages.  Or our leading can create a distance between us.  Or our desire to fix or help can impact partnership.  Or indeed we can miss a leap they make and be a bit too far behind. You can see it. And sense it. 

Flow matters. It’s where transformation happens.”

Ⓒ 3D Coaching Ltd 2020

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