Claire writes: “In a mentor coaching group, we were talking about challenge and why it can feel uncomfortable.

One of the delegates suddenly realised that in their day job, they talk about being ‘kind not nice’. Being kind not nice can mean that saying what we see – as an offer – is the greatest gift we can give.”

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