Claire writes: “
It’s interesting how often people come to talk with a handful of separate things… which are almost always connected.
It’s interesting how often people come to talk with a handful of separate things… which are almost always connected.And as Nick Smith said,
- How are these related? is story
- What’s the connection? is about the person
Connection is a useful question as that’s often where the transformation will emerge.”
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Some feedback we received: Don’t really get this! If you’ve time for a short elaboration, would be very grateful.
Our response:
Interestingly you’re the only person who has asked – so thank you for that.
It comes, I think, from the fact that we spend a great deal of time talking to problems rather than people. How are those related I sense is about the stuff outside.
How are these connected is about ‘what’s the connection, for you, about the things we are thinking about – and that often leads to what’s the connection in you’ – and that’s where change can happen.
Great question – and I appreciate it wasn’t as clear as it could have been so appreciate your feedback