If you’re working freelance you may be asked for a reference as you explore new work possibilities.
In the application form/CV and the interview you will have a certain level of control to ensure that you include evidence and potential which relates to the specific role and organisation. References are more complex. So have you trained your referees?
Most people put down their line manager (or equivalent) and two other people who they think would be good. An even more productive use of this aspect of your application is, as Covey says, ‘to begin with the end in mind’.
Requests for references will arrive in a variety of forms. They take time and energy. Do you want your referee to answer the questions they are asked? Or do you want them to do even more?
This is not influencing your referees and getting them to skew what they say about you. The content is still entirely with them. But unless you make clear both the context and any specific insight which you know they have, they may get overlooked. This will mean that you might be applying for several similar jobs and use slightly different referees each time.
Tell your referee why you’ve named them for this particular job. Ask them to particularly comment on that aspect, as well as answering the questions on the form.
We were asked by a Government Agency for a reference from a piece of work we had done with teams in transition.
The best placed person to comment on that was the Principal of a Higher Education Training College where we had done similar work. The reference needed
That was the basic need. But we were asking this particular individual because
If you think that a reference isn’t going to be helpful you will need to find another referee who will directly comment on what you think will be the weakness in the first reference.
If you think that your referee is going to be influenced by the fact that you don’t have a productive working relationship together, you will need your second reference to be someone who will address that. You cannot tell them what to say, but you can ask them to especially comment on your working relationship and what you have done to try and improve it.
In these situations, you will need the second referee to comment on the same context as the first referee but from a different, perhaps more positive, perspective. In this case it is important that the second referee can comment on their knowledge of you in your current work situation. A reference about your competency from a totally different workplace can be useful, but will not moderate a bad reference from your line manager.
If there has been a breakdown in a relationship, what the second referee can say about the skills and experience and competence you have used to deal with that difficulty is critical. Learning from failure is a strength and many high-level jobs will want to answer questions about your ability to deal with adversity and diversity.
So, for this role,